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  • Marni Kinrys, Wing Girl

9 Tips For Approaching Women

Updated: May 20, 2019


1. Do not linger and stare – Women are always aware of the “lurkers”. We can see you and feel you. The longer you stare the lower your chances are of having a successful approach.

2. Do not be afraid of rejection – What is rejection really when approaching a woman? It is a woman who you have never met before and know nothing about telling you she may not be into you based on two seconds of conversation. The less afraid you are of rejection the more attention you will get from women.

3. Always go after what you want – I always say the only way to get what you want is by asking for it. If you never take a chance and go after the things you want, you will never get anything EXCEPT a big case of depression. Any woman that you are interested in approach, find out more about, and then decide if she is really what you want.

4. 25% / 75% – As the man you should be talking 25% and guiding the conversation not dominating it. The more a woman is talking the better.

5. Know what you want to say – I hate it when men come up to me and expect me to start and carry the conversation. An opinion opener is always a good way to start a conversation if you are stuck. Just make sure that you are actually interested in the question you have asked.

6. Pay attention to her body language – To avoid wasting your time, energy and money take notice of a womans body language. This will tell you what she is really saying. She is not interested or engaged if: She is not making eye contact, she nods her head to answer your questions, she gives one word answers, her body is turned away from you, she is looking over your shoulder for someone to save her.

7. You can leave at any time – Remember that reason you are approaching a woman is because you want to see if you she is interesting and worth your time. If this is not the case you have full power and permission to excuse yourself and leave.

8. Everyone has approach anxiety – Approaching a complete stranger is a nerve racking task for everyone. But the more that you do the less scary it seems and the more natural it becomes.

9. Approach every woman – Practice, practice, practice.

This blog post was re-posted with permission from Marni Kinrys.

Marni Kinrys is a female dating coach for men that has spent the last decade helping tens of thousands of men stop being Mr. Nice Guy and become Mr. Holy S&*T, I Want Him!!! With only one simple mission. . . . to give the good guy the edge. You are about to learn everything you need to know about women. As founder of The Wing Girl Method, Marni gives you access to the 5% of knowledge on attracting women that no man can ever teach you.

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