Never Underestimate The Influence Of A Sapiosexual.
Updated: May 4, 2019
Many women are actually attracted or aroused by the intelligence in others.
Is this a growing trend? Yes, but truth be told it is not, throughout history; women have loved a man who has more than just looks. financial security, title, and position aside.....intelligence and flair truly stands out. So gentlemen, if you haven't picked up a book since Charlie and The Chocolate Factory in Elementary school. It is time to step up your game.
According to Merriam-Webster:
Sapiosexual is a hybrid word—that is, a word made up of parts of other words, typically from Latin or Greek. Often these words are recent coinages despite their Classical lineage. Sapio- comes from the Latin verb sapere, meaning “to be wise” or “to have sense.” It is also the root of such English words as sage, savant, savvy, and, most transparently, sapient, a fancy word for “wise.” It’s visible as well in the common Latin name for the human species, Homo Sapiens.
In the past, women would passively wait for a man. Now a days, women are actively seeking men. Not just any man, a true gentleman, one who they see a future with. For example, you might have seen many on dating apps posting what they are looking for, LTR, long time relationships. Many now a days are basically seeking a consistent and stable relationship with only one.
So, where exactly does this term 'sapiosexual' fit in?
Interesting that you ask, basically one faces a great responsibility today. That is, we are a product of our current age. For example, if one is a half century mark down the line, he should be considered somewhat "wise" correct? As far as knowing more about the reality of life, the essence of sexual relations, the quality of women in a wider scale, and not so much filled with a ravishing organic sexuality towards female genitals and overall looks, but focuses mainly on the intellectual part. With this in mind, in any moment, he can actually have a great conversation, a great relationship due to his experience with wisdom, knowledge, intellectual maturity, and emotional intelligence.
“It takes more than six inches to reach the soul...”
This is definitely captivating to both men and women alike. It's exciting and captures you. More than the physical aspect of the other. So what we are seeing today is many men and women looking for the same. Particularly women are seeking, or demanding, one that could hold a good conversation, have the capacity of being able to understand her as a complex being, and give her more value. And in any given moment, be able to enchant her and create an emotional, psychological, and mystical connection that lasts longer than your hard on.
So, are you looking for the same characteristics in a woman?
Contrary to popular belief, many intelligent women, or should we add, sapiosexual women, are rejected by the common man, because the common man feels weak, intimidated by the woman's intelligence. Believe it or not, many women even lower their talents and abilities because they don't want to make their counterpart, a common weak man, or feel shameful. So they drop their IQ so to speak in order to be able to reach out for men who they seem interested in...but, still holds true, many men are intimidated by smart ladies. And women on the other hand, get turned on by an intelligent man. So pick up that book, work on yourself, step your game up, make intelligence sexy again. Represent every other gentleman out there. I declare this, you will attract many. Go out there and have a good one.